About grmaval

I was born in Fergus Falls, MN, lake country, and grew up in Fargo, ND. I met my pen pal in Australia after 45 years of contact. Did that, now I'm happily wed to a high school classmate.

Fresh Blanket of Snow

Fresh Blanket of Snow

By Valerie J Laidlaw

My dreams throughout the night,

Had been filled

With brightly-blooming habiscus flowers,

And,

A colorful, floral summer day.

I woke up to a fresh blanket of snow.

The stillness of a gentle morning,

With large flakes sifting down,

Falling like dandruff,

On my Aussie’s black, thick fur.

I see him as he watches the sky,

Tilting his head upward.

Bellowing out,

Howling,

A lonesome, sad song.

I feel comfort, and coziness

In this snowy, calm scene,

Then,

I recall my dream,

And, look forward to those warmer days.

March 8, 2023

Change of Season

“Change of Season”
By Valerie J. Laidlaw
March 2, 2023

Yesterday,
The wind and the snow
Blew into drifts,
Higher than my hips.
March arrived,
Like a lion.
People ventured out,
Against travelling advise,
For a “Blizzard.”
As I sat outside, today,
With my morning café,
And, listened to the birds’ songs.
Beyond what I could see,
A cardinal, and a crow, both cried out,
Followed by a woodpecker’s drumming,
Interrupted by a distinctive, robin’s shout.
Although the red-breasted messenger of spring,
Was not seen,
Its song was clearly the melody he’d bring,
Foretelling of a season
Yet to be.
Bringing hope, here,
To the seemingly, endless Winter, we endure.

GrgrmaVivian’s Date Cookies

Vivian’s Date-filled Cookies
These were cookies my mom baked for my daughter Kaira and I in her last apartment in Madison, MN.

Mix together…1/2 c shortening
1 c sugar
2 eggs
Stir in…………..2 T thick cream
1 t vanilla
Sift together and add…2 1/2 c flour
1/4 t soda
1/2 t salt
Chill dough. Roll thin. Cut round base plus round top with hole cut in middle.
On a lightly greased baking sheet place bottom, then, spread filling almost to edges, place top cookie, press edges. In a 400 degree oven, bake 8-10 minutes until lightly browned.
Makes about 6 dozen 3″ cookies.

Date filling;
Mix together in saucepan…1 1/2 c dates
1/2 c sugar
1/2 c water
2 T lemon juice
Cook slowly, stirring until thickened. About 5 minutes. Cool. (Enough to fill 4 dozen cookies)

whirlwind

whirlwind

by Valerie J Laidlaw

once we were

making a piñata

with colored tissue paper

on a balloon

suddenly

a little duster

swirled in

grasping the balloon

and the colored tissue

in a beautful array

then away

off into sky

it was amazing

like a spirit

it left us

it was gone

as quckly

as it had arrived

as if the

piñata

and its

colorful tissues

went into heaven

life is like that!

Breeze & Boppa

Breeze & Boppa

By Valerie J. Laidlaw

Breeze loves her “Boppa,”

And, she knows he loves her, too!

She dances and sings, “Boppa”

And, screams with such excitement,

When he calls “Grma” on the phone.

She knows he’s coming over,

Through the door into her home.

She likes his hat and whiskers,

And, they always share a smile,

“Boppa’s” coming for a visit,

For a long or little while.

There’s a special bond

Between them,

Breeze and “Boppa” style!

Peaceful

Peaceful

By Valerie J Laidlaw

A fresh blanket of pure white snow.

A peaceful quiet surrounds me.

I sit outside cloaked in my plush robe

Sipping a granny mug of warmed coffee

Spiked with a caramel monster java.

The moon and a few stars shine

In a fading dark blue, predawn sky.

White fluffy clouds like clumps of quilt batting

Float eastward in the breeze.

A scraping sound breaks the silence

As a neighbor shovels his walk.

My Aussie howls to respond to a distant bark.

The sparrows are still asleep

As are the squirrels and bunnies

Still burrowed under the shed.

A winter world is waking up

As the sun slowly rises.

Time to go inside

To warm up and wait

Till a new day begins,

Again.

Peaceful

Peaceful

By Valerie J Laidlaw

A fresh blanket of pure white snow.

A peaceful quiet surrounds me.

I sit outside cloaked in my plush robe

Sipping a granny mug of warmed coffee

Spiked with a caramel monster java.

The moon and a few stars shine

In a fading dark blue, predawn sky

White fluffy clouds like clumps of quilt batting

Float eastward in the breeze.

The scraping sound breaks the silence

As a neighbor shovels his walk.

My Aussie howls to respond to a distant bark.

The sparrows are still asleep

As are the squirrels and bunnies

Still burrowed under the shed.

A winter world is waking up

As the sun slowly rises

Time to go inside

To warm up and wait

Till a new day begins,

Again.

College Days

Back during the winters of 73/74 & 74/75 I attended a university in Fargo, ND. I was 17 & 18 years old those two winters.

Weird things come to mind from those days. I used to go to coffee houses at the student union. Entertainment was a guitar player singing folk songs as I sipped hot apple cider, with a cinnamon stick, out of a mug.

Almost all of the guys wore green Army “snorkle” winter coats and blue jeans, and as they walked around on the snow-covered grounds…they all looked like ugly clones. My ex kept his snorkel jacket for years with a strip of duct tape holding the back together. It mysteriously disappeared into a dumpster, along with a pair of thin, brown nylon runing shorts, many years ago.

Several of us went to a series of Charlie Chapman movies and “Clockwork Orange.” We also bowled and played pool.

I helped with a group called “Campus Attractions” setting up concerts. I saw “Black Oak Arkansas,” Linda Ronstad, Charlie Daniels, John Denver, ZZ Top, and others. One band, the “Ozark Mountain Daredevils” invited us poolside at their hotel. Their lead singer and harmonica player kept taking his shirt off hoping to get the group of us to strip down and go skinny dipping. He was unsuccessful. We were too conservative and self conscious.

This was the era of the famous song about “The Streak,” where one stripped down randomnly, and ran across a public place or stage in nothing but tennis shoes. The fad disappeared as suddenly as it had when it first appeared…like a streak.

The drinking age was 18 across the river into Minnesota. One bar called the “Dirty Bird” had the famed falsetto singer “Tiny Tim” perform on their venue during that era.

I was a lifeguard at the university. I used to do back sailor dives off of the high dive. Over time, I became more cautious, sensible, and fearful before I was ever injured from doing so. I flipped off the low boards until my back slightly scraped the board once, and knew to quit from that one near miss.

I rode bike everywhere in those days during the non-winter seasons. My car was a 1963 Chevy Impala 4-door. Most of the time the engine killed on the 10th street underpass if the light turned red at the top of the incline leaving the underpass. Then, my brakes would lock up and I could not start my engine or shift to go forward. I had to slide backwards in reverse down into the underpass, hoping to start up the incline again during a green light. I had the wave to the cars behind me to go around as I backed down.

If successful, I could drive on my way to “T lot” to park in time for a 7:30am Biology Lab to study, disect, and diagram “instinct, non-vertibrae fish.”

Going back to my car, oftentimes I locked my keys in my car. Fortunately, I could bend and wiggle a wire coat hanger through the winged front windows enough to free the lock. It happened so much that I ended up to be pretty proficient at doing so.

My other more reliable vehicle was my mom’s Gran Torino. She carpooled to work so I could drive her car. That was the car I drove when I had passed my driver’s exam a few years earlier. Both of those cars now would be quite sought after.

Just a few random memories…hoped you enjoyed them.